tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2408185959146294592.post5816565299327530249..comments2023-10-19T07:33:10.019-05:00Comments on Intelligent Ignorance: Pre-Valentine's Day Reality: No Man. No Plans. No Worries.Brandonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05824521615648602792noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2408185959146294592.post-55075128029368888422008-03-07T16:36:00.000-05:002008-03-07T16:36:00.000-05:00Hi folks! I'm Carah Herring (clbherring@gmail.com)...Hi folks! I'm Carah Herring (clbherring@gmail.com) and I'm the author of this piece.<BR/>==================================<BR/><BR/>Jermel, that's a bunch of CROCK. Valentine's Day is a 'make-or-break' holiday. I always tell women, if you're dealing with someone -- Valentine's Day will TRULY determine where y'all stand. <BR/><BR/>Okay, so maybe as a man, you're pockets are <I> conveniently </I> a lil' light for the 14th. Well, you better get creative, hun!<BR/><BR/>People are always quick to sing the same tired song about 'well, you should show love to your mate EVERY day, not just one day out the year.' Give me a BREAK! That's so weak.<BR/><BR/>Nah, I'll retract that. That M.O. may work for some couples, but it damn sure doesn't work for me! Maybe that's why I'm single. Lol. But nah, I know what I want. And I don't make apologies for that. And I'm woman enough to be content and confident in my position on this matter.<BR/><BR/>So ladies, remember -- we've already learned how to snatch the cat back (in my previous article). If your man (or potential man) wants to be stangy with the mid-February gifts... well, be stangy with the kitty kat among other things.<BR/><BR/>Okay, that last sentence sounded mad ignorant and Trina-esque, but it's the TRUTH! Ladies, don't reward men for behaving badly or for being lazy. Make him prove that he is worthy of you. I'm not saying his worth can only proven through gifts, however it's definitely one aspect of the process.Carah H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12213007812413592567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2408185959146294592.post-90725894754872025332008-02-06T09:23:00.000-05:002008-02-06T09:23:00.000-05:00First off, that pic is hi-la-ri-ious!The article i...First off, that pic is hi-la-ri-ious!<BR/><BR/>The article is actually a breathe of fresh air. Trust me ladies, guys would love nothing more than the demise of Valentine's Day. All those damn "He went to Jared commercials" are driving me crazy! Plus when you're in the early stages of a relationship, V-day is always akward. If you get her something you may be jumping the gun. If you don't get her something she may think you're cheapskate. We should just let individual couples celebrate on their anniversaries and be done with this Valentine's Day madness.Jermelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09013701540188062346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2408185959146294592.post-17833144397263810162008-02-05T16:31:00.000-05:002008-02-05T16:31:00.000-05:00Good article. This is too true. I dont have a bf t...Good article. This is too true. I dont have a bf this year, and Im thanking GOD! Last year this time I was stuck in a dead-end relationship and was dreading V-Day! This year, I plan on spending the day at work and the night at home...loving my damn self!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com